Why I’ve Stoppped Feeling Bad About Myself When Confronted
I know it hurts getting confronted and accused… Even if you sense that the other person got triggered by something that wasn’t your fault… It still makes you wonder if you’ve done something wrong? I mean it can literally occupy you the whole day… and makes you feel bad about yourself and anxious about the whole situation…
You start to believe that the confrontation maybe was legitimate… because you think you might actually (accidentally) have done something that justified the confrontation? (but you don't know exactly what…)
Okay... COMMON — We both know that is not true!
That belief is just something your mind makes you feel in order to save you from something that you are unconsciously afraid will happen if you wouldn’t believe it to be legitimate…
Think about it… When you don’t believe the confrontation was justified — what happens then? Well, you would probably not feel bad about yourself… And you would not let the confrontation make you doubt your own kindness…
And when you don't doubt your own kindness — Then you will stand unshakeable when people confront you and want you to be shaken… (and I know you desire that deeply)
…AND I WANT YOU TO FEEL UNSHAKEABLE!
Yes, let's talk about what people don't want to speak openly about: some people unconsciously want you to be shaken and break you… yes it's many times an unconscious action (and I know you know exactly what I'm talking about when I say that — because you're a highly-sensitive person, so you sense that immediately…)
Let me know in the comments with a if you can relate.
This may not apply to you, BUT if you want to feel confident and unshakeable when confronted you have to look at the underlying fears that get triggered in you when confronted.
I have a whole process that helps you explore this and will open your eyes to what actually happens when confronted — HINT: it's not what you think it is… But it will make confrontations less painful for you.
If you’ve been searching for this kind of result … then you’d be a perfect fit for my 16-week group mentorship Guardians Of Feminine Light!
Guardians Of Feminine Light is a powerhouse opportunity for highly-sensitive female entrepreneurs who struggle with managing confrontations — and who want to change this quickly.
In this group program I help you make sensitivity your ally, decode the real cause of a confrontation, attract the outcome you desire, regulate your own emotions and liberate yourself from the control of fear so you can guard your feminine light.
Confrontation management is so much more than “just” setting healthy boundaries (although we’ll work deeply together on you setting healthy boundaries with confidence) … It’s a complete, end-to-end, process to manage confrontations with unshakeable inner peace — JUST by leading with HEART.
Wave “goodbye” to doing “ALL the things” that aren’t letting you successfully resolve the confrontation in a positive and empowered way (and are leaving you burned out and sleepless) — and say “hello” to the easeful feeling from knowing exactly what to do, and how to navigate the situation in a heart-centered way that guards your kindness and well-being….
So you can lead with heart and feel proud of yourself afterwards…
If this sounds interesting and you have questions, send me a quick DM and we’ll have a zero-pressure chat.
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